How to effectively toot your own horn, and promote yourself and your business without looking like a complete self promoter is something that so many of us grapple with.
Do you find it easy to toot your own horn?
If you’re like a zillion other business people I know, then your most likely answer is going to be no. And that’s a perfectly normal answer.
Learning how to promote yourself without sounding like you’re bragging is not always the easiest thing to do. If you feel uncomfortable you are not alone.
It seems a bit braggish to be boasting about how wonderful you are. Braggish – is that even a word?
Nothing more annoying that those people who pop up all over the place telling you how wonderful they are, full of their own importance and it’s all about them. You know the kind I mean. Very rarely share anything about anyone else, just tell you all about themselves. They kind of tend to be the same in real life too – never stop to take breath or ask anyone else about how they are doing.
On the other hand, you kind of have to admire the size of their ego and the fact that they are totally oblivious to anything but themselves, their own needs and wants.
SO – how do you tell people how wonderful you and your business are without coming across as being full of ego?
Well, here’s the thing.
I have spent a great many years working in the not for profit sector. Most people in this sector are amazingly giving and generous with their time and knowledge. They do what they do for others, rather than themselves. Sure, they may get paid, but the wages are paltry compared with the corporate world.
I crossed from corporate to not for profit and now into the world of self employment.
I always found it very easy (and I still do) to promote a charity or a cause that I am working for. That’s because I only work with nice people and causes I believe in.
It’s very easy to ask for money for others. It’s easy to ask for support for a charity.
When it came down to promoting myself, that was a whole diferent kettle of fish. I had one major stumbling block.
The difficulty was…..
Making the ask for myself. When I first returned to Australia, I needed to let people know that I was looking for business locally.
It was not easy.
Up until that point, I had never needed to ask for myself.
I felt uncomfortable actively telling people about my own credentials and successes. It felt like I was bragging. I’ve never been particularly good at the me, me, me thing. In my business successes I’ve always put my achievements down to whole teams efforts, crediting those working me for their contributions.
Then I realised that all these people I have helped, people who said they admired my work, were actually very willing to help me move ahead in my business.
The problem was…..
They did not know I needed help.
What I had to do was ask. They were not mind readers.
Ok, I had to do a little bit more than ask. I needed to be clear about HOW they could help me and be specific about WHAT I wanted them to do.
I found LinkedIn a truly valuable tool for helping promote my business skills. It was a place people could look me up, and the recommendations, honours and awards on my profile did the horn tooting for me.
I also honed my pitch, so that I could quickly explain
“Dragons Sisters can help you to connect, convert and sell. We do this through strategic communication and a proven formula of Smarketing – strategy, sales and marketing.”
The team at Dragon Sisters has many talents, but it all boils down to helping clients with connecting, converting and selling.
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Once I started to express exactly what we do, the business stared to flow and we’ve not looked back. In fact, it’s rather nice to be in the position that we have many repeat clients and lots of word of mouth referrals.
To each and every one of the businesses we’ve worked with – THANK YOU! It’s been a great pleasure to help you move your businesses forward.